Cheating Or Not

Mmmmm... So there you are, in the middle of daily routine marital bliss. The kids seem to be right on track in school and all seems to be going well without a hitch. Then you start to notice small signs that there might be trouble in paradise. We start to notice small changes in our husbands or wives routine. All of a sudden they are not calling to check in during the day like they normally would or maybe their arrival time to home has been a little later than normal. Then we are subjected to their attitude change, they seem to be distant and irritable with us at times. They are staying up up later at night and the sex has been cut down to a bare minimum. To top it off, the children seem to have started acting out... For they are picking up on something fishy also. That is the moment when fear and panic clutches our heart, and we face the awful possibility that they could be cheating.
We then are determined to find out if indeed they are cheating. Playing Nancy Drew or the Hardy Boys is not easy but we set out to uncover the truth in hopes that we could be wrong. But nine times out of ten people are not wrong when they suspect their loved one is cheating. We all seem to possess that universal feeling of just " knowing " when we are being cheated on.
A good place to start to uncover if their cheating or not is their cell phone. A little snoop through a cell phone when they are not looking can tell what they have been up to. Question unexplained absences or ask if you may tag along. If they are not hiding anything they will have no problem telling you or letting you come along. A dead give away is when they dress before going out. If your loved one has a history of deception, you have every right to question what their up to. Take a search through their personal belongings and car. Somewhere through the search there will be some type of sign that they are cheating... Unless their Houdini. A very important step to find out if their cheating is to ask others or pick up on clues from others that they are cheating. This is a very important step to be attentive to, you can pick up on little things others say or distinct mannerisms from them. If there is more issues with and how you do things where as before it didn't bother them, they may be comparing you to the other person.
Cheating is a very painful thing for a couple to go through. Some can rebuild after and some cannot. This is where the history of deception question comes in... And then you will have your answer.