Ahhhh...
That feeling when you first fall in love. Life around you feels more
colorful and vibrant, food even seems to taste better. A little
spring to your walk seems to be natural and it feels as if you
conquer the world. Falling in love is without a doubt a rush. It's an
endless adrenaline that keeps you awake at night fantasizing about
what is to come in the relationship. We are telling everyone we are
in love, just short of shouting it from the rooftops of every
building around. A few months down the road and things seem to have
fizzled out. The rush you once felt seems to be gone or missing from
your love. The next thing you know you end up parting ways, only to
feel defeated emotionally and mentally. Wondering what went wrong and
what could've been done differently up until this point.
Don't
beat yourself up to terribly. The feeling of a new relationship is an
addicting rush for some people. For some people, after a months of
new relationship when the honeymoon phase wears off and its time for
a real time relationship they flee. There's nothing you could've done
differently or anything you can do to make them stay. Some people are
just only interested in that initial rush of a new relationship. To
them it is game to see how long they can keep that rush alive and to
leave when it dies down. To them it's a pure addiction. To us, the
unsuspecting people, it seems as if our whole world has been turned
inside out and it leaves us heartbroken and wondering where we went
wrong. Because our logic is that everything was so perfect, why
change a thing? We must realize to the other person it's a addiction,
just like a drug addiction. With drugs, people start out loving the
drug, then they continue because they are addicted to that rush and
are forever chasing that first high. It's the same with
relationships, when that rush is gone they are off to the next person
for the next rush.
Some
of the signs that these people show are quite clear, even in the
beginning. They are risk takers and this is something you can pick
up from someone after knowing them for a little while. They seem
totally focused on you and nothing else in their life matters. They
even say things that seem to be to good to be true, that's a sure
sign. If they are addicted to any substance is also an indication
that addiction runs in their personality. If they over glorify past
sexual experiences in past relationships is another good indicator
that this a love rush person. These people are very much into instant
gratification and sometimes wll go to any length to achieve it. But
most of all, trust and use your gut instinct... If it's to good to be
true it probably is.
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